Just had a conversation with a close friend of mine on MSN. I was given an example in which the guy answered her question in a real untactful manner. That made her a bit annoyed. So that made me think,
Are we guys that thick?
How come we give stupid answers that gets us into trouble?
Do we actually think with our "other" head?
My answer is yes and no. There are many guys that are sensitive and kind while others are just obvious oxymoron walking with an empty shell. This goes to the ladies as well.
At the end of the day, its a matter of need. Guys, if you really care then try to be sensitive to your woman. If they give you a question, do not shoot them down as they have feelings too. To the girls, if you are not happy with the reaction that you get, show it and let the men know that its not the right answer. If you don't give us a nudge then how would we learn?! At the end, try to understand each other and learn from past experiences. If that doesn't work then its time to look for the exit door.
Time to sleep. Was told to go to bed early to recuperate.
Off I go to slumber land.................
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